Want to know the secret to stage presence?

Want to know the secret to stage presence?

Want to know the secret to stage presence? People come up to me after they’ve seen me speak and they often say: Wow, you have such stage presence! Which is lovely. I appreciate them. And I’m going to let you in on a little secret. You can cultivate stage presence too. Always come on the stage from a place of movement if at all possible. It’s better if you can be backstage or off camera, stretching, moving, breathing, walking, not pacing, but moving. The worst thing a speaker can do is to have to sit and wait and be nervous and just be shrinking. The tighter you feel, the less you breathe, which causes you to get more nervous, and then even tighter….it’s a vicious cycle. So get off your butt and stretch, move, breathe or at least walk around.  Remember the audience is more scared FOR you than you are of them. They need you to be good. I also want you to take a deep breath the second you step on stage or camera: a deep belly breath. Then take a moment and scan the audience if you’re on a stage or look right into the camera lens if you’re on camera. This pause is powerful. This pause says: Listen, what I’m about to say is important. So you’ll want to lean in and really listen. It’s a way to draw people in. It also conveys that you are powerful, that you’re coming from a place of power. You aren’t rushing because you believe whole heartedly in what you’re about to say. Communication is only 7% words. Body language speaks volumes in seconds.  When you stand up straight and strong, proud and...

Speaking is a Skill!

Have you ever wondered what “their” secret is? You know, the speakers you see on the big stages who seem like they were just born with this ridiculous talent. I used to wonder too. I was just like you. I wanted to feel like a confident rock star when I got in front of groups of people or stepped in front of a camera, but I’d get nervous. Even though I’d been a performer for most of my life, speaking was a whole other “can of worms”. So now I’m going to let you in on a little secret. Public speaking is a learned skill that has very little to do with talent. I know, I know. That statement might offend you, but it’s true. Becoming a super star speaker who’s confident in front of 5 or 500 or 5,000 people is not as hard as you may think. I go more into it in the video, so check it out: Thanks for watching and stay tuned for more cool tips and tools. Because here’s the thing, even if you don’t aspire to be a big time keynote speaker or a You Tube star, learning how to be a more effective communicator, (which is a fancy name for “be a better speaker”) can help you get promotions at work, have better dates, or grow your business fast through speaking. If you have any questions, comments or want to see how we can take your speaking to the next level, please click here to schedule a complimentary 1-on-1 meeting with...
Do you sweat at the start of your videos or talks?

Do you sweat at the start of your videos or talks?

Do you sweat over the beginning of every speech? Have you wondered how to come across as confident when you feel like there’s a big wall between you and the audience? What if I could give you 1 simple tool that would have you create instant connection with any audience? So the first thing I do when I work with a speaker is to ask them how connected they are with themselves, first. We can’t really connect with other human beings effectively unless we are in touch with ourselves. The fastest way is to sit quietly for 5 minutes, close your eyes, and take deep breaths. Just notice your thoughts as if they are clouds going by in the sky. Just notice and then bring your focus back to your breath. Next, pause and reflect on your purpose, your reason for speaking. Remember how you’ve helped your clients in the past and what a difference you made for them. If you haven’t had clients yet, think about the friends, co-workers, and family members you’ve helped. Now you are connected with yourself and your mission. I go more into getting connected with your “why” here: Next, now this is for if you’re speaking at a live event: when you are getting close to going on, you’ve got to get a read on the audience before you walk onto the stage. You want to read and match their energy. If they’re tired or checked out, you want to have energy but you don’t want to “attack” them with overpowering energy. More about this later. If you’re about to do a shoot,...